MARRIED bros -- how'd you decide to marry?

and why did you think it was going to work?
.,.,...,...,.,:,,:,...,:::,..,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.  01/27/12
wanted to have kids she's generally a chill, rational per...
Barack Carcetti  01/27/12
how long were you married before you had a kid?
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what do you mean rational? i mean, i think my gf is rational...
.,.,...,...,.,:,,:,...,:::,..,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.  01/27/12
To be fair, smoking is disgusting and prole.
:;:;:;;.,,,.:;:;:..,,,,.:;:;:::  06/15/17
(Effette LA twink @ Urth Cafe)
David Duchovny  06/16/17
We started living together and after awhile we figured why t...
....,,,..,.,..,..  01/27/12
how'd you pay for the wedding then
Jo$h Hartnettt  01/27/12
pure stupidity. ended badly
.,.,..,...,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,...,:,.,.:..:.,:.:  01/27/12
Say more.
.,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,...,::.:,.,.,:,.,.:.:.,:.::,.  01/27/12
temporary insanity
1994 Stephen Malkmus  01/27/12
met a cool chick, engaged at about 6 months, married at abou...
xt  01/27/12
She's chill, only gets nutty about twice a year. Has good g...
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180. natural blonde? blonde peach fuzz on a woman's body is ...
,,,.,,,,;.,.,::;,,;..,,::.,.,,..:,:,.:..:,..:.::,  06/15/17
Lol gook
Frank Lloyd Wrong  06/15/17
Lol at this faggot marrying a total slut
''"'"""''''  06/15/17
aren't all women kinda crazy though
.,.,...,...,.,:,,:,...,:::,..,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.  01/27/12
Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educator...
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Most Schopenhauer is 180.
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LOL this makes no sense. His support for "women ar...
timthomas  01/27/12
When it was finally legalized.
.,.,,...,.,.,.,:,,:,...,:::.,...,:,.,.:...:.,,.::,  01/27/12
Knocked her up
OberTRUMPENfuerhur  01/27/12
Hey me too!
Evil Losers  01/27/12
...
Ciroc Obama  01/27/12
Update?
~~(>' ' )>  06/15/17
In order of importance - intelligent companionship, loyalty,...
oneforthethumb  01/27/12
(guy who's not into CGWBT/not a beta fag)
........,.,...........,......::....,.,............  01/27/12
Loyalty and strong sex drive = 180 Intelligent companions...
AUDACITY OF HOPE  01/27/12
Not tough = fine as long as nothing bad ever happens. Tough...
Pinball Wizard, Esq.  06/16/17
Honestly I probably did it because it was easier than breaki...
michael yidd-killchrist  01/27/12
Realized that she could put up with my shit and (mainly) bro...
JohnPaulStevens  01/27/12
only cr post itt edit: ok knocked her up one was legit to...
you're the puppet  01/27/12
thanks I guess. kids matter too. you have to pick a woman wh...
JohnPaulStevens  01/27/12
Yep. I'm realizing that picking a good woman for marriage ha...
AUDACITY OF HOPE  01/27/12
Generally agreed but you have to remember that personality m...
JohnPaulStevens  01/27/12
I guess this makes sense. I guess I'm not so much concerned...
AUDACITY OF HOPE  01/27/12
was GK running a married male schtick at some point?
A Jurisprudence is Performed  06/16/17
Colleges give you a better financial aid package. I actually...
you're the puppet  06/15/17
...
David Duchovny  06/16/17
I decided to marry my wife about two months after we met. Ev...
actual medical doctor  06/16/17
fag
FLESHLIGHT on DTPs boiclit as he sucks a COCK  06/16/17
Guy who works in oil, has a full metal and wood shop, and lo...
actual medical doctor  06/16/17
Is working in oil supposed to be impressive?
Stimm So Hard I Can Fly  06/16/17
Not impressive, but lol, just lol if you think that the oilf...
actual medical doctor  06/16/17
The fuck
what username  06/16/17
Sorry brother. It's kind of faggy but I can't help it.
actual medical doctor  06/16/17
180 manx story
Kurtlos Eichenwalderrama and the Copa Hential  06/16/17
decided to go against XO
Pina Toro III  06/16/17


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10:31 AM - January 27th, 2012

and why did you think it was going to work?


Barack Carcetti


11:40 AM - January 27th, 2012

wanted to have kids

she's generally a chill, rational person


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11:51 AM - January 27th, 2012

how long were you married before you had a kid?


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11:53 AM - January 27th, 2012

what do you mean rational? i mean, i think my gf is rational about big things, but day-to-day she can be emotionally erratic (for example she was pissy for a few hours b/c i smelled like cigs the other day).


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8:53 PM - June 15th, 2017

To be fair, smoking is disgusting and prole.


David Duchovny

(St. Tropez)


1:54 AM - June 16th, 2017

(Effette LA twink @ Urth Cafe)


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11:43 AM - January 27th, 2012

We started living together and after awhile we figured why the fuck not. At that point in our lives we were both broke as fuck and had like 140k worth of student loans hanging over our heads. I get how people with actual assets can have qualms about getting married, but when you are dirt poor you have nothing to lose really.


Jo$h Hartnettt


6:04 PM - January 27th, 2012

how'd you pay for the wedding then


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12:00 PM - January 27th, 2012

pure stupidity. ended badly


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6:04 PM - January 27th, 2012

Say more.


1994 Stephen Malkmus


12:00 PM - January 27th, 2012

temporary insanity


xt


12:03 PM - January 27th, 2012

met a cool chick, engaged at about 6 months, married at about 15 months.

married for 6 years, 2 kids


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12:06 PM - January 27th, 2012

She's chill, only gets nutty about twice a year. Has good genes, tall, blonde, blue eyes. Dated for about two years, engaged for one. Married 2 years now. Just had a kid.

When they're not crazy and they're good looking it's a no brainer.


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8:58 PM - June 15th, 2017

180. natural blonde? blonde peach fuzz on a woman's body is so sexy.


Frank Lloyd Wrong


10:55 PM - June 15th, 2017

Lol gook


\'\'\"\'\"\"\"\'\'\'\'


10:56 PM - June 15th, 2017

Lol at this faggot marrying a total slut


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12:25 PM - January 27th, 2012

aren't all women kinda crazy though


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12:27 PM - January 27th, 2012

Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.


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5:04 PM - January 27th, 2012

Most Schopenhauer is 180.


timthomas


5:27 PM - January 27th, 2012

LOL this makes no sense.

His support for "women are between children and men" is "compare children to men". WTF?


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12:26 PM - January 27th, 2012

(Earl)


OberTRUMPENfuerhur


12:36 PM - January 27th, 2012

Knocked her up


Evil Losers


1:28 PM - January 27th, 2012

Hey me too!


Ciroc Obama


6:11 PM - January 27th, 2012


~~(>\' \' )>


7:27 PM - June 15th, 2017

Update?


oneforthethumb


7:15 PM - January 27th, 2012

In order of importance - intelligent companionship, loyalty, toughness, and a strong sex drive.


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8:26 PM - January 27th, 2012

(guy who's not into CGWBT/not a beta fag)


AUDACITY OF HOPE


10:37 PM - January 27th, 2012

Loyalty and strong sex drive = 180

Intelligent companionship = meh. Unnecessary and counterproductive.

Toughness = who the hell wants a tough chick? That's like wanting a dood. I don't want a girl who's like Hemingway or John Wayne.


Pinball Wizard, Esq.


12:33 AM - June 16th, 2017

Not tough = fine as long as nothing bad ever happens. Tough I take here as meaning mature/rational/future-time-oriented. My wife was way tougher in her 20s but staying home with kids led her to regress and become a less mature and resilient person.


michael yidd-killchrist


10:51 PM - January 27th, 2012

Honestly I probably did it because it was easier than breaking up. Sometimes it seems like a good decision, sometimes not. C'est la vie.


JohnPaulStevens


10:53 PM - January 27th, 2012

Realized that she could put up with my shit and (mainly) brought out the best in me. Good sex was also critical.


you\'re the puppet


10:55 PM - January 27th, 2012

only cr post itt

edit: ok knocked her up one was legit too. different, but legit.


JohnPaulStevens


11:01 PM - January 27th, 2012

thanks I guess. kids matter too. you have to pick a woman who would be good for that


AUDACITY OF HOPE


11:06 PM - January 27th, 2012

Yep. I'm realizing that picking a good woman for marriage has very little to do with how much you two "click" and has a lot more to do with how good she is in bed, how well she puts up with your shit (i.e. she is patient and knows when to keep her mouth shut) and is good with kids.

A successful marriage has nothing to do with having shit in common, being from similar educational or socioeconomic backgrounds, or even having similar values apart from religious values, if one is so inclined.


JohnPaulStevens


11:10 PM - January 27th, 2012

Generally agreed but you have to remember that personality match matters. Similarly educational and socioeconomic background matters as well, as they inform the values and objectives of someone.

Example: I could never have married someone who grew up a poor, because their desire for gross material tokens of success is antithetical to my background. Does that mean I automatically excluded all poors? no, just the 99% who lacked my general worldview and educational achievement.

Also, check family and remember that the apple almost NEVER falls too far from the tree


AUDACITY OF HOPE


11:28 PM - January 27th, 2012

I guess this makes sense. I guess I'm not so much concerned with personality as long as the girl lacks certain very negative personality traits. I can get along with pretty much any nice girl.

I guess I also understand where you're coming from re: socioeconomic status. But not all poors are like that. I know a few people who grew up in humble situations who have remained down to earth and frugal even despite achieving a good degree of financial success. In this regard I get along much better with a nice girl from a working class background who doesn't strive than with a chick from an upper middle class or lower upper class background who is very socially and professionally ambitious.

But other than those sorts of factors, I don't care about personality all too much. I can get along with most everyone.


A Jurisprudence is Performed


3:50 PM - June 16th, 2017

was GK running a married male schtick at some point?


you\'re the puppet

(The kids are alt-right)


7:32 PM - June 15th, 2017

Colleges give you a better financial aid package. I actually did not think it was going to work.


David Duchovny

(St. Tropez)


1:56 AM - June 16th, 2017


actual medical doctor

((not an actual medical doctor))


3:47 PM - June 16th, 2017

I decided to marry my wife about two months after we met. Every young and in love couple thinks they've got something special that others don't. We had something special, but this really was different and we both knew it. This wasn't either of our first times. She'd been left at the altar and I'd been left in a faraway place. I thought I knew what love was before her. Now I realize that I didn't have a clue.

After our first date we cleared our calendars and hung out non stop except when working. We hadn't spent a free minute apart since meeting. She was hilarious and fun to hang out with. Unlike many of my former girlfriends, my friends loved hanging out with her. We became boyfriend/girlfriend a week after our first date and said 'I love you' by the end of the second.

She introduced me to her entrie extended family after eleven days together. They thought I was great. Her grandmother, the most important woman in her life, immediately liked me. I won over her dad, a former firefighter, when a drunk driver hit her and I made it to the scene within a minute of the police. I told him that she was going to be OK and that I loved her. I asked for his permisson to marry her three weeks later while frying a Thanksgiving turkey. He said yes.

We were married the following March. It's been the best five years of my life. We sit up late at night laughing at one another's jokes, both of us trying to fight off sleep because we're having too much fun. We've faced a lifetime of problems during those five years but all they've done is bring us closer together.

I married this girl because I never have to lie or pretend to be something I'm not. We've got the type of love everybody single hopes they'll find and every couple wishes they had. I married her because it would have been criminal not to. I married her because we've got something truly special.


FLESHLIGHT on DTPs boiclit as he sucks a COCK


3:53 PM - June 16th, 2017

fag


actual medical doctor

((not an actual medical doctor))


4:24 PM - June 16th, 2017

Guy who works in oil, has a full metal and wood shop, and loves his wife here, sup?


Stimm So Hard I Can Fly


4:25 PM - June 16th, 2017

Is working in oil supposed to be impressive?


actual medical doctor

((not an actual medical doctor))


4:27 PM - June 16th, 2017

Not impressive, but lol, just lol if you think that the oilfields are full of twinks and liberals


what username

(arhat)


3:58 PM - June 16th, 2017

The fuck


actual medical doctor

((not an actual medical doctor))


4:24 PM - June 16th, 2017

Sorry brother. It's kind of faggy but I can't help it.


Kurtlos Eichenwalderrama and the Copa Hential

(playing with gay dog boners since 2013)


4:05 PM - June 16th, 2017

180 manx story


Pina Toro III

(*)


3:49 PM - June 16th, 2017

decided to go against XO